Switch
You flow both ways.
You genuinely enjoy both leading and following, and which one fits depends on the moment and the partner.
In practice
In practice, a Switch’s dynamic depends entirely on the partner and the night — leading one scene and following the next, sometimes trading control mid-scene with a partner who does the same. That flexibility takes real self-awareness: knowing which role fits the mood, communicating it clearly, and not defaulting to whichever role is easier. Switches often become fluent negotiators in a dynamic, because they’ve felt both sides of the table.
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