Voyeur
You love to watch.
You’re turned on by watching — the anticipation and intimacy of being let in as an observer.
In practice
In practice, a Voyeur gets the charge from watching — the anticipation of what’s about to happen, the intimacy of being let in on something private, and the restraint of not participating directly. That might mean watching a partner with someone else, watching a scene unfold, or simply observing closely during play that isn’t primarily theirs. The best Voyeur dynamics run on the same negotiated consent as anything else — being watched is its own kind of vulnerability.
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