Master / Owner
Authority, held with care.
You’re drawn to structured, ongoing authority — ownership, protocol, and the responsibility that comes with it.
In practice
In practice, a Master or Owner is drawn to dynamics that extend past a single scene — ongoing protocol, agreed rules, and the day-to-day responsibility of holding authority over someone who’s given it to them. That might mean setting expectations for how a partner checks in, making decisions on their behalf within limits they’ve set, or simply carrying the weight of being the one who’s accountable. It’s less about a single hot scene and more about the structure that holds a relationship together.
Also called: Master, Mistress, Owner, Sir, Ma’am
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